Discover The Obvious Signs That Shows A Guy Fancies You 

There is nothing more frustrating and stressful when you suspect a guy fancies you, maybe he is giving you some of the subtle signs, but you just don't know for sure.

There is nothing worse than this kind of scenario, where you don't won't to let a good opportunity to pass you bye.

But equally, you don't want to risk declaring how you feel to him, only to find out that he is just being overly friendly.

Difficult situation to be in and work out isn't it>

When you want to know something but you aren't getting to know what you want it can kind of drive you crazy?

This is the way your mind works just cannot deal with the not knowing and all that curiosity.

If there is a guy you like and you can't get him out of your head and you just want to know if he likes you or not, then hopefully this article will help to answer your questions. 

Knowing the signs a guy likes you, will definitely help you answer some of those teasing questions that have been going over and over in your mind, such as does he or doesn't he like me.

26 Signs A Guy Fancies You

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1) He will make the first move

The biggest and most obvious sign that he likes you is.

He will initiate the first move.

This could be something like, buying you a drink if you're out in a bar or asking you for a dance if you're at a nightclub or disco you know the standard generic stuff.

If it is somebody that you know, then he might suggest that you go with him to the cinema out for a meal or some other social occasion.

If a guy is making it blatantly obvious to you that he his attracted to you. Then this also clearly means that he finds you very attractive and desirable.

Because, if he does not know you personally that well. Then he is drawn to you, based on your beauty and attractiveness.

2) He will try to get close to you

whatever you may think, most men are affectionate and if he is interested in you, he will try to find every reason and chance available to get closer to you at every given opportunity.

This may be instantly obvious or it might be a bit more subtle as you find him gradually edging ever closer to you in a stealth like fashion.

If he is confident, then he may pluck up the courage and walk straight up to you or he may try to edge is way ever closer to you bit by bit.

When a guy likes you. When they're talking to you, they will sometimes subconsciously and unknowingly mirror and copy your body language and actions.

Let's say, you start play with your hair, you may find that he does the same or if you rub your ear or smile they will mimic your actions. So pay attention, to what he is doing.

3) His tone of voice might give it away

According to a new study.

You can sometimes tell if a guy is into you, by listening to the tone of his voice. Because a voice change can be an indication that a guy likes you.

Listen to their words, and more importantly, how they say them, because the research discovered that when a man speaks in a lower pitch, it revealed, that they like you.

4) He will subtly lean in towards you

A good early indication that can be a sign he likes you is, he will tend to lean inwards towards you or face towards you when he his talking to you.

If he's confident in himself and he likes you then if he is sitting he will sit facing you with his knees pointing towards you.

If he feels really relaxed and comfortable around you think he might sit in a relaxed, laid back open legged position.

If he is a bit shy. Then he may feel a bit uncomfortable facing you directly, so he might come across as a bit more guarded.

As he becomes more at ease and interested in you. He may start to edge closer to you and bit by bit, he will begin to turn and stand more facing you.

Therefore, if he gradually begins to turn so he he is facing you then this could signal he is interested in you.

But if he turns to the side whilst you're talking to him and his attention is elsewhere, then that is not a very good sign.

5) He might raise his eyebrows

Another physical sign that some men might do if they are attracted to you is, and although this may sound and at the time look a bit strange to you.

He might raise his eyebrows, otherwise known as an eyebrow flash, which could be a quick rise and fall of his eyebrows, and even though he may not be aware of this himself, it can be an indication that shows he feels attracted to you.

6) He will try to impress you

Most men if they like you, then they will be extra nice to you and they will be on their best behavior.

If a guy has approached you and you have already started having a conversation with him, then he might start telling you things about himself.

He may throw into the conversation things about himself that may come across as seeming a bit boastful, or he may go the other way and he might start showing you his more sensitive side.

He might not do this in front of his mates, but he may come across more sensitive and he might be more affectionate when you're alone together.

Sometimes even if you have not asked him a question about him, he may still attempt to tell you things about himself such as

  • Where he works
  • His personal achievements
  • What he is good at
  • What kind of car he drives
  • And even some of his bad boy moments

Many men feel the need to make an instant good early impression to get your attention so they will go out of their way to try and impress or prove themselves to you.

So don't be put off because this does not necessarily mean he his boasting, some might, but it can also indicate that he is trying to impress you to try to get you interested in him.

However, you have to be a bit careful when a guy appears to be trying to impress you, as it can mean, that his his trying to impress his own ego and mates.

A guy who genuinely likes you.

Should also be impressed by you. The things you do and say.

You might also find out that he defends you and sticks up for you.

7) He might come across as the alpha male

When men are around women. They soon start to try and out compete each other.

This is where there animal like instinct starts to kick in. Some men will want to come across as the strong and smart Alpha male type.

In the animal kingdom, the strongest make, always gets their mate.

So if you notice that a guy is trying show off to you in front of his mates.

Then there is a very good chance that he is trying to impress you.

The chances are he will dress well to try to make a good impression.

When a man is trying to impress a woman he may pull back his shoulders and stick out his chest or he will place his hands in his back pockets to also open up his chest in a type of confident power pose.

He may try to put his mates down, to make himself look the alpha male.

8) He will try to make you laugh

He will also smile at you a lot and he will do his best to make you laugh, during those ice breaking moments you can sometimes get those awkward silent moments where the conversation comes to an end.

If he really likes you then he will try to reignite a fading conversation and attempt to keep it going, to keep you interested as he knows those first impressions can count.

He might also look to see how you are reacting to some of his jokes or how you're responding to his conversation, to try and guage how you feel about him.

For the man it can seem like he his having an audition as you would in a talent show to get you to like him, where he only has a few minutes to get your attention and impress you.

His energy and positive attitude can also be a sign that he is very interested in you and he will try to be at his very best to impress and entertain you, so he might appear as the life and soul of the party inside but he is attempting to get you interested in him.

9) He will make eye contact with you

There is an old song which starts off.

Mama, he's making eyes at me
Mama, he's awfully nice to me
Mama, he's almost breaking' my heart
He's beside me
Mercy! Let my conscience guide me!"

Have you noticed a guy, that has been giving you the eye lately.

Because eye contact is one of the biggest signs and a dead give away, that a guy is into you.

Even if a man tries to hide the fact that he is attracted to you he will still subconsciously give it away especially through the eyes.

This means if he makes a lot of eye contact towards you then that is definitely a big sign he finds you attractive.

When a man stares at you because he likes you it will be a nice kind of stare, he may be taken aback by your looks at first, if he really likes you then he won't be able to stop looking at you.

Men who are shy or anxious, however, may find it uncomfortable to look you directly in the eye, however, their eyes can still give it away even if they are shy and nervous.

What they might do is, they will initially make eye contact towards you, but the moment you look back at them or catch them, they might look down or away.

However, if they like you then it won't be long before they reestablish their eye contact.

So if they make eye contact towards you, then they break it, then make eye contact again and this pattern can continue then this usually means that they are attracted to you.

10) Other ways his eyes can give it away

Body language experts say that our blink rate can also be a tell tale give away that he feels attracted towards you.

So if they suddenly start to blink more this can show he likes being in your company and he is pleased to see you, because when we are excited our blink rate increases.

However it is not always easy to check or stay focused on their fluctuated blink rate without coming across as being a bit weird.

Another good reveal from eyes is, when his eyes dilate it can indicate that he feels attracted to you, but again checking this out without making it blatantly obvious is easier said than done.

If you keep purposely looking to see if his pupils have become larger then he may feel a bit awkward and think your behavior is a bit strange, so try and be a bit subtle and discreet if you can.

11) He will innocently touch you

Another give away is, he will gently keep on innocently trying to lightly touch you or gently pat you, guide you or play with your hair. He will feel compelled to rub or tap you at every given opportunity.

A guy who is interested in you will search for reasons to playfully touch you, say on your arm and leg or brush up close at every given opportunity because it feels good for them to be up close to you.

However a man who is a bit shy might not try to touch you playfully and some might run out of things to say.

It does not mean he does not like you, it just means he is human and probably a very nice, caring and trust worthy person who really wants to impress you but does not yet have to social skills and confidence some men have.

12) He will be interested in what you have to say

If he feels attracted to you then he will be deeply interested in you and receptive to what you have to say.

You may find that he is interested in your hobbies and general, random things and facts about you, including your interests, your past and what you like, hoping you have something in common.

You may also find out that he claims to also be interested in the things you like or do.

If he likes you then he will be interested to find out more about you, and so he should.

13) He may try to protect, stick up for you and defend you

He may even come across as protective and you may find he defends you in front of others. If a man goes out of his way to come across to talk to you, then that is a giveaway sign that he likes you.

If he is shy then he might not directly approach you, but you find out he will appear around you at every given opportunity hoping that you will initiate the conversation or make the first move.

If he playfully teases you then this can mean he has feelings towards you.

Again this is not always the case and if the teasing is critical or nasty orientated then steer clear of him.

14) He may appear a bit nervous and tongue tied

Some men are more naturally confident than others and a man's approach and body language can depend on their personality.

He may come across as looking a bit clumsy and a little bit anxious.

So if he seems a bit awkward and a bit uncomfortable. Don't react badly, because this can be a real give away sign he likes you.

If he appears uncomfortable, edgy and awkward.

The chances are he has already spent quite some time worrying about it beforehand and he will have made himself nervous even to the point of high anxiety levels.

This can lead him to get tongue tied or he might freeze and his nervousness can make him struggle to pronounce his words.

Have you ever wondered why a guy sometimes needs a drink before he approaches you?

Well it is because he is nervous and scared, so it gives a bit of courage, unfortunately, a little too much at times.

So when you speak to him or ask him a question.

He may get a bit tongue tied or he might freeze and his nervousness can make him struggle to pronounce his words.

He may talk fast, he may even blush, which can be another outward sign that he likes you.

If he is a bit uncomfortable or shy then it may cause him to talk to you about any old nonsense.

Some guys are so shy it can seriously impede their relationship chances.

Their shyness can make them want to avoid you even though they really want to be with you.

A good give away that may reveal if he his attracted to you is, he will touch his earlobes quite a lot or he may show signs of nervous laughter or he may be a little fidgety.

If he starts to rub the back of his neck or mess with his ears, it can be a sign that he feels a bit pressured or uncomfortable.

15) He may be interested in you, but afraid

One of the hardest and most scariest things a guy has to face, is asking a girl out.

As much as he wants to declare his feelings to you.

His anxious feelings and his inner voice of self doubt, will get in his way.

It is very hard to hide feelings of anxiety.

Which can make him seem a bit awkward.

And although you may feel like, you don't want a guy who comes across as awkward you want somebody who is exciting and confident.

Try not to freak out and judge him straight away.

Because, a guy who really likes you, can't help but feel a bit awkward.

This is the way their brains are wired up to react, when they really find you attractive.

You might think he is a bit weird or creepy, but because he finds you so attractive and beautiful, they natural feel tense and anxious.

He may tremble a bit and he may not come across as being very confident and the more awkward he feels the more attractive he finds you.

So don't dismiss this, because anxiety, is a good sign that shows he is into you, badly.

Because it can indicate. He is so keen to impress you, because he really likes you and he doesn't want to mess up.

He can't help, but to feel anxious, because he sees it as his one big chance and because he is trying so hard to get it right, it prevents him from being natural.

When he is sitting then he may bounce his leg up and down or he may find it hard to keep still.

This will be more evident at the beginning and because he feels a bit anxious he will probably start off standing more towards the side of you rather than face you head on and look you in the eye.

If he is a bit anxious then when he talks to you or answers your questions he may give short answers or he may speak faster.

But the more he gets you to engage in the conversation and has he started to feel more and more comfortable in your presence.

His anxiety levels will start to drop so the bouncing or fidgeting about will begin to slow down until after a few minutes it should virtually stop.

If he is a bit anxious he may keep looking down or away when you make eye contact.

16) Bumping into you will become more than a coincidence

If a man is really keen on you and he wants to pursue you then you may find out that all of a sudden he will keep bumping into you or turning up at the social places you frequent, if you find that you keep running into him then there is a good chance that it is no coincidence.

He may ask you for your phone number or he might have already gotten it from somebody else and the he will start texting you a lot about general or random stuff and everyday things and gossip.

This does not necessarily mean he is stalking you or harassing you so long as you know who he his before you reply to his messages.

17) He will find all of your jokes funny

A guy who likes you will be pleased to see you and he won't be able to hide it, he will probably instantly switch into a happy mood every time he bumps into you, he will be more energetic and positive when he is around you.

He will laugh at all your jokes and funny stories, even if he inwardly does not really find them that funny, he will probably even laugh and smile at your bad jokes.

18) He might ask for your phone number or email

If you have just met a guy and he ask you for your phone number, email or he might ask you where you live, work, school you attend or what you do at.

This will be an indication that he likes you because it shows he is keen to see you again.

However if you have spent some time chatting to a guy and he does not ask for your phone number or if he does not try to arrange another meeting then the chances are he is not very interested.

19) He may give you gifts

Another sure sign a guy likes you, especially if you have already been dating him is for a while is, he will offer to treat you or he will give you gifts as spending money on you means he is keen on you, he may also give you a lot of compliments and respond positively to you.

A guy who showers you with treats out and gifts is demonstrating to you that he thinks your special and the one for him.

This does not mean you should not show a bit of caution to strangers or people you're not sure about who keep giving you gifts.

20) He will make contact with you via digital devices

Although his actions and behaviors can reveal his inner affections there are other ways that will indicate whether he likes you especially if you are showing signs that you like him.

Such as he may eagerly respond to any text messages that you send him, if you have approached him then if he likes you he will stay and chat and have a laugh with you.

If you are on any of the social media sites and a guy joins in your conversations and chat or he may leave you random positive messages then this indicates that their is a high chance that he wants to get to know you better.

21) He will want to spend a lot of time with you

If a guy is keen on you then he will want to spend a lot of time with you and he will let you easily influence and persuade him to do what you suggest and he will be willing to try new things with you.

He will be eager to go places with you, help you and do the things that you like to do, including shopping. If he really likes you then he will progressively want to spend more and more time with you.

Just because he may not make a physical move towards you straight away does not always mean he does not feel attracted to you.

In fact, if he really likes you then he may take his time because he respects you and he thinks your special.

As long as he does not go cold on you and he is still emotionally connected to you then he likes you.

He will also probably pay more attention to you than he does with his friends. A good sign that he likes you is, he will introduce you to his family, however in some cases he may put off introducing you to his family and friends because he may feel embarrassed by them.

22) He might give you a lot of compliments

He may also compliment you quite a lot about your dress sense, how good you look, your hair style, how good you look and how well you are doing of certain things.

If you want to make an instant good impression on a man you like, start as you mean to go on, and make a good and positive first impression by dressing and looking nice and smart.

But the main thing is, he will like you for whom you are as a person and your unique and special personality.

23) He might lose his cool, calm composure around you

Some men will do all types of scary things, like join the army, go rock climbing, parachute jumping, bungee jumping to name a few.

But the thing that they find most scary is to ask a girl out how they fancy.

Sometimes you might notice that a guy who usually comes across as cool and smooth, you know the James Bond type, when he is in the company of his mates, might appear to fall apart when he is in your company.

At first you might find it a bit strange that Mr Cool and Smooth, is acting a bit nervous, flustered or shy, when he is around you.

You might even feel a bit upset or disappointed to why he is smooth with everybody else but he seems a little awkward and uncomfortable when he is in the presents of your company.

But this is actually a good sign that indicates that he fancies you and he is trying hard to impress you.

24) He might scratch his face

Sometimes when a guy likes you, then it can trigger a rush of blood to his face, which will cause his face to start to warm up and become itchy.

This could also make him go a bit red, and because his face is starting to warm up and become itchy, then you may notice that he is scratching his face.

So if you do notice that his face as gone a bit red or if you see him scratching or rubbing his face when he is in the presence of your company, then this could be a physiological sign that he is attracted to you.

25) His inner child, may come out

If you're both attracted to each other then you will probably both act a bit false, even a bit silly or giggly at times.

Some men might even talk a bit garbage or come across as a bit silly and over enthusiastic in their attempt to try and impress you.

We all act a bit out of character and a bit over the top in those few early and awkward moments as you both try to make a good first impression.

This is often due to nerves or just trying a bit to hard.

26) He will ask you a lot of questions

If a guy has the hots for you.

Then he will probably start asking you lots of questions about yourself and what you're interested in and he will come across as generally interested in your answers and what you have to say.

When he his speaking to you cold.

Asking question is good way of keeping the conversation going and it is a great way for him to gather data about you so he can get to know a little bit about who you are and what you're about.

This will also give him an excuse to approach you again and ask you about some of the things you had previously told him and what you talked to him about the last time.

All the questions are basically so he can find something to talk to you about.

If he feels a bit anxious then sound as if he is talking about some unusual or silly topics.

So try not to judge him straight away because deep down he is desperate to impress you and keep you engaged in a conversation.

When anybody is a bit nervous there brain is not properly engages and you will find that they speak quickly and they often speak without much logic or thought.

27) He lets you influence him

If a guy really likes you, then he will allow you to influence him and boss him about and he will probably be very agreeable with you and the things you want to do.

If you notice that you can easily persuade him to come around to agreeing with your ways of thinking, opinions and doing things.

Or if he his willing to do things that you like doing or he seems to share a common interest or like in the things you like.

Then, that is a sign he likes you.

How To Easily Attract The Guy Of Your Dreams

Are you looking to find your true Prince Charming and do you secretly crave for you own glorious, great big white wedding, so you can feel special, beautiful and unique. For that one, all important day.

Well guess what. You have not got to wait for your dream wedding day and you do not have rely on others because you are already special, beautiful, amazing and unique, as you are.

If you are looking to attract a guy and settle down?

You have to realize that you are the key to getting the love of your life and keeping him.

Because, if you 

  • Believe in yourself 
  • You believe that you're attractive enough 
  • You believe that you're good enough
  • You work on feeling good about yourself
  • Accept yourself, faults included

Then you won't have to worry that much about, whether a guy fancies you.

Because, you will automatically get men to chase you, desire you and want to be with you.

Ever wondered why some girls, seem to get all the guys, whilst others struggle.

And it is not all down to looks either.

Read on.

The trouble is. Most woman, even the super models. Don't think they are good enough or attractive enough.

This is the number one reason most women struggle to meet their ideal guy and then keep them is because on the inside they don't feel like they are attractive enough or good enough to get and keep their ideal guy.

Are your inner insecurities repelling guys away from you?

Feeling insecure is not a very good confidence booster and it can actually ruin your chances of attracting your ideal guy. 

If you don't think that you're attractive enough to get a guy or you have falling into the trap that you always have to look your very best.

Then this is not your fault.

Sadly this is the way society is, especially with all the commercial products and pressures on young girls and woman to look great all the time.

Sadly, this just leads to more feelings of insecurity and more body and self conscious issues.

Sometimes, there is just, way too much social pressure on woman to look glamorous and have the perfect body and looks.

Especially with all the glamour models in the movies, adverts and magazines.

These days, there is just so much pressure being put on you, to look and feel glamorous all the time.

And, although there is nothing wrong with looking your best and taking good care of your body and yourself. 

You should not have to spend all your time, trying to look glamorous and trying to stay forever young.

Your life is for living and enjoying, and not to be put on a pedestal.

These expectations and societal pressures, can make it hard for a woman to try and always live up to the expectations of what they think men:

  •  Want them to be like 
  •  How men think you should look like  
  •  How you should act and behave

Due to the amount of girls, researching, the signs a guy fancies you. The evidence suggest that, there are literally thousands of woman and girls, who are really looking to find love and romance.

This indicates that there is a much deeper insecurity and self belief issue going on with many woman that need addressing.

You might be thinking. What has liking myself, what has feeling good about myself and being happy on the inside got to do with the signs a guy likes you?

All I want to know is.

Does this guy I have got a crush on, fancy me, that's all that matters to me.

The reality is, if you

  • Believe that you're good enough 
  • Believe that you're attractive enough
  • You don't truly like and loving yourself unconditionally 
  • You don't accepting yourself or feeling happy about yourself

Then others aren't going to find you attractive.

According to self help expert Marisa Peers

The biggest disease known to man and woman. Is the thinking that you're not good enough and thinking that you're not attractive enough.

Marisa says.

The believe that you're not enough is the biggest lie you will ever tell yourself and it is the root cause of all our insecurities and it can be the difference between.

Attracting and keeping your ideal guy and going on to have the most wonderful, blissful and loving relationship starts of with the loving of yourself and the belief that.

"You are good enough"

If you're always feeling insecure, struggling to get and keep your real true ideal guy where you find that you seem to keep making all the wrong choices. 

Maybe you're constantly going from one bad relationship to another and never really enjoying that loving and fulfilling relationship experience that you can have and you fully deserve to have.

Then it could all be down to how much you love, accept and approve of yourself because there is nothing worse in the world than not liking or not being happy with yourself.

We all deserve to be loved but we should all start to love ourselves more and more each day.

Marisa has a simple formula to this huge problem.

Stand in front of the mirror, as you wake up and just before you go to bed and say to yourself ten times each.

  • I love you (Send yourself love)
  • I am good enough
  • I am attractive enough

And really mean it and say it with real conviction and if you do this each and every day.

You will find it is way more powerful than knowing the signs a guy fancies you.

Sure, it can still help you to learn the signs a guy likes you, so you can plan your next move.

But by far the most important thing you can do is to love, accept and believe that you're good enough, as you are.

Because you have always been good enough, you have always been attractive enough and you fully and truly deserve love.

Being natural, being yourself and being happy with who you are is probably the best way to get your guy

Look your best but be yourself, learn to feel great about yourself and be happy on the inside. And, soon, you will turn into that beautiful swan, that you already are.

Which will allow you to ditch the need to spend all your time trying to impress people on the outside.

A genuine guy is also interested in you are a person

Again, a guy, in the long run will be more happy with a girl who feels comfortable in her own skin and a girl who just be's, what a girl really should be.

Her, beautiful, warm and happy self.

You may be surprised to hear this. But the best way to capture a man's heart, is by being your real inner beautiful and natural, happy and pleasant self.

Because a girl who wears a tracksuit or a cardigan, but is is pleasant, warm, friendly and feels great on the inside and has a great attitude.

Always beats a girl that is dressed up to the nines, has model looks, but has a bad attitude. And it is the best approach to attract and keep they guy of your dreams.

Try not to become to desperate, don't judge all men, by your past negative bad relationship experiences and avoid trying to force things to happen

Just be your best self. Be happy and enjoy yourself, and you will attract and meet the guy of your desires.

Because confidence and radiant beauty on the outside, comes from inner confidence and feel great on the inside.

How To Easily Attract Your True Soulmate

Does he like you, but he is trying to hide it?

When you are feeling unsure your mind will be filled with all sorts of questions and stories that you will be telling yourself which can cause you to self-doubt yourself which can be hard for you to stop.

Why hasn't he, made a move yet? He does't like me?

Are just a few of the things you might be asking yourself.

Not every guy will make it obvious that they like you, which can make it a bit extra tricky for you to tell if a guy likes you, but he is trying to hide it.

You may be wondering, if a guy is really into you, then why hasn't he approached me or let me know how he feels.

Surely you would think, if he truly has the hots for you, then he would ask you for a date?

But, do you know, how difficult it can be for a guy to ask you out, especially if he's a bit shy or anxious.

You have probably had, loads of secret admirers who would love to date you, that you have not even been aware of, who are just too afraid to ask you out.

A guy would probably feel less nervous and afraid about wrestling with a tiger, than directly asking a girl out cold, it is even harder for him if he already knows you.

It is not just a woman, who has a fear being rejected. Many men, need to have a drink, to give them the courage to approach a girl.

In the olden days. It was, traditionally, for the guy to make the first move.

The trouble with that tradition, you could be waiting a very long time. Some shy guys might never pluck up the courage to ask you out.

If you're really into a guy, and you detect that he likes you back.

Why wait forever for him to make a move. Because, these days, the rules have changed, and I am sure the guy, would welcome a bit of encouragement from you.

Are you waiting for your Prince Charming?

Although you were probably brought up on stories about finding your own Prince Charming, the reality is, most guys are not like this.

The first thing to understand about men is, they are not all the hearts and flowers guys, Prince Charming or the romantic bloke that is often depicted in glossy magazines or romantic books or films.

So if you're waiting for the confident and smooth James Bond or the romantic type who is going to declare is undying love to you, write you a romantic poem, sweep you off your feet or roll up on a big white horse and take you off into the sunset or hand you a bunch of red roses, you may be disappointed.

This means that you may have to stop wishing, stop dreaming and start looking for those less obvious, but still reliable body language and behavioral clues.

Either way, you just need to know the answer, one way or another, because that is the only way to quieten your mind, balance your hormones and settle down your emotions.

The trouble is, you cannot always rely on that voice in the back of your head, your mind can be very confusing and all that trying to figure things out can be agonizingly painful. 

Sometimes your mind can even make things up.   

You may be considering, asking your friends for their advice. But can you really trust, your friends, or will they embarrass you and act all silly, in front of your crush?

Perhaps you already know him, does he live near you, perhaps he is a work colleague or he attends the same school as you. 

That can really prove difficult to tell, whether he just wants to be friends or he yearns to date you.

The trouble, with most guys is. They can be so unpredictable, one minute they're blowing hot and then they go all cold on you.

The trouble with dating is. When you're in the friend zone, because you're both at ease it is easy to get on and the conversation just flows naturally.

But the second it becomes a date or a potential date, it can affect you both, and everything becomes completely different and you find yourself trying too hard.

From the guy's point of view, when you are casually speaking or hanging around together, there is no pressure on him to impress you and he kinds of acts naturally.

But when he realizes there is more to it or there could be more to it. 

Everything changes, the guy might begin to feel nervous. All of a sudden, they will go into a panic mode or he will become tongue tied, and may appear as he is not bothered, when really he secretly desires you.

On an emotional level, most men want the same as you

What you might not realize. Deep, down. Men are just as emotional and affectionate as woman, even though they don't always come across that way.

Most men, like you. Just want a loving, happy relationship, a soul mate and best friend and companion.

Most men try to hide their feelings, because they tend to think, revealing their feelings is a bit of a girly thing and it will make them look weak.

You see. Most men are still a bit primitive and act like the stereo caveman, hunter gather type, as far as showing their feelings to a girl goes. They like to be seen as the alpha male who likes the chase.

But, on the inside. Many guys are a bit shy, insecure and anxious to approach a girl directly and ask them out.

If a a guy has been showing you a lot of interest. Then there is a good chance that he does have the hots for you.

But if you're waiting for your crush or they guy you suspect fancies you. To sweep you of your feet, Romeo and Juliet style.

Then, the chances are. It is very unlikely to happen.

Does he want to be more than friends?

One of the things that you might be struggling to figure out in your head is. Does a guy have the hots for you or is he just being nice, kind and friendly.

That is a real tricky one.

Lets say. A guy, you know is being friendly and kind to you. Perhaps, he tries to pick you up, when you're feeling down, or he gives you a helping hand when you need it.

This could indicate that he fancies you, but it could also mean, he is just being friendly and considerate.

In these types of situations, it might mean that you might have got to dig a bit deeper and look for other signs and clues.

Such as. 

Has he suggested, doing things alone with you. Has he dropped and given you any subtle hints that he would like to take you out, or meet up with you sometime.

Or has he tried to plan future things, events or nights out with you. Maybe, he will make it into a bit of a joke, just so he can try and gauge your reaction or in the hope that you agree.

Other things to look out for are. Does he give you lots of compliments, even when you think that you not at your best or does he go out of his way to talk to you on a regular basis?

It can definitely, be a lot harder to break the ice, if you are already know each other or if you're already good friends. 

Because, if the guy already knows you. From his point of view. It can be very hard for him, to declare how he feels, because of the fear of rejection and the embarrassing risk of getting it all wrong.

Another thing that will worry the guy is. He won't want to risk losing you as a friend and he will probably be well aware of how uncomfortable it might be afterwards, if the girl, turns him down. 

The chances are. If the guy likes you back, he will be having the same thoughts, inner desires and feelings as you are. 

And in his heart he will be secretly yearning for you, and he too, will be looking for signs to show, if you like him.

Does he even know, you like him?

If you do have a major crush on a guy, then the next important step might be, does he have any idea that you like him.

Men are still quite primitive and clueless, as far as dating and women go, and they aren't very good psychic detects either. 

Do you know how hard and nerve wracking it is for most guys to approach a woman and ask them out, or hit on them.

A guy will love it and probably act on it, if you drop him some subtle, but obvious clues. As this might give him the confidence he needs.

Because, if he has an idea that you like him, then that is surely going to be a great help.

Just remember, the guy is probably asking himself the same questions as you are asking yourself

Depending on how well you know him, he might not even know whether you're single or not.

If a guy does like you, then he would really appreciate some subtle clues, you don't have to go over and declare your undivided love for him, but a few little hints and nudges, could spark him into action.

Woman, have a lot more power and influence over men than they realize.

If you do approach a guy and you get it wrong, do not feel bad about it, be proud of yourself for having the courage to ask.

Some of the reasons, why he may not have made a move on you could be

  • He, like you is not sure whether, you like him, and this could be holding him back 
  • He is a bit shy 
  • He his scared of losing your friendship
  • He feels scared of being rejected 
  • He thinks, you're not interested in him 
  • The girl is not showing any clear signs back, that she is interested in him 
  • The girl keeps going on about her ex, or other guys that she likes 
  • The girl has said or done something that has put the guy off her 
  • He wants to make a move, but he keeps on hesitating 
  • Because he thinks that you will reject him, he talks himself out of making a move 
  • He is waiting for you to make a move, or give him a big clue or a clear indication 
  • The girl is playing a bit too hard to get 
  • He has been put off by rumors about the girl he fancies 
  • She is not showing any signs or emotions 
  • The girl is sending mixed signals
  • He is not interested

Release your insecurities and you can have it all.

You may have already made a lot of effort.

Like, you've had your hair done, you put on your best clothes, you've splashed on the make up, yet you've still found that nothing has happened yet.

Sometimes you can do everything that you think is right to get a guy to like you and go out with you.

But, if it has not happened yet, then there is usually a good reason for it.

Many girls miss out on one very important aspect, and if you don't get this right, then no amount of effort or trying to get him to like you will work.

If you want to attract the right guy for you and go on to enjoy a happy and fulfilling, loving relationship with your ideal guy, then you have to make sure you feel right emotionally, and you release your inner insecurities.

If you have a low self esteem, then this can make you doubt and convince yourself that a guy doesn't like you even when he clearly does.

You might ask yourself the question, it is too good to be true, or he is too good for me, or you may think, even you do go out with him, it won't last or you will end up heartbroken.

Because, it doesn't matter how great you look, or how hard you try, if you're feeling insecure about yourself or you not emotionally right, then it will always be a struggle.

Looks are not the most important criteria for most men, the thing to remember, most guys think that happy, friendly, respectful, and trustworthy woman are the most attractive.

If you watch some of the dating programs on TV, you will notice a particular pattern, which shows up, time and time again.

Even though some of them look attractive on the outside, they are emotionally insecure on the inside, which will make it harder for them to make an emotional connection or attract the right kind of guy.

These deep insecurities that lay hidden deep inside your mind, maybe blocking of your chances of attracting and dating your dream guy.

Others, allow their past experiences to cause them to form negative beliefs about men.

Such as. 

  • "All men are the same"
  • "All men cheat"
  • "I'll never meet anybody"
  • "I might as well stay single"
  • "What's wrong with me"
  • "Why can't I find a boyfriend"

Getting the emotional side of things right, is much more important than looks or trying hard to impress a man.

You cannot force them or will them to like you, but you can increase your chances of them liking you, by working on your insecurities and doing some emotional work.

In fact, when you feel good about yourself, and you have let go of all your inner insecurities, then you won't have to try too hard, because you will attract the right guy for you naturally and effortlessly, and more importantly, you will keep him.

Make yourself irresistible to guy's you like by releasing your insecurities, so you can easily and effortlessly attract your ideal guy, without having to wait forever or relying on hope and wishful thinking.

Does he want to be more than friends?

One of the things that you might be struggling to figure out in your head is. 

Does a guy have the hots for you or is he just being nice, kind and friendly?

That is a real tricky one.

Lets say. A guy, you know is being friendly and kind to you. 

Perhaps, he tries to pick you up, when you're feeling down, or he gives you a helping hand when you need it.

This could indicate that he fancies you, but it could also mean, he is just being friendly and considerate.

In these types of situations, it might mean that you might have got to dig a bit deeper and look for other signs and clues.

Such as. Has he suggested, doing things alone with you. Has he dropped and given you any subtle hints that he would like to take you out, or meet up with you sometime.

Or has he tried to plan future things, events or nights out with you. Maybe, he will make it into a bit of a joke, just so he can try and gauge your reaction or in the hope that you agree.

Other things to look out for are.

Does he give you lots of compliments, even when you think that you not at your best or does he go out of his way to talk to you on a regular basis?

It can definitely, be a lot harder to break the ice, if you are already know each other or if you're already good friends. 

Because, if the guy already knows you. From his point of view. It can be very hard for him, to declare how he feels, because of the fear of rejection and the embarrassing risk of getting it all wrong.

Another thing that will worry the guy is. He won't want to risk losing you as a friend and he will probably be well aware of how uncomfortable it might be afterwards, if the girl, turns him down. 

In his heart he will be secretly yearning for you, and he too, will be looking for signs to show, if you like him.

Is all the not knowing driving you mad or is it bringing you closer to you crush?

I am guessing, at the moment, all you want is a bit ff clarity and a final conclusion, to answer your questions, does he likes you or not, or is it?

Or maybe, even though you may not realize it, perhaps you like a bit of mystery, suspense and the not knowing.

Maybe, it is part of the attraction process and nature's way of creating love, because it stirs up your inner feelings and makes your desires for him stronger?    

After all, isn't all the anticipation and mystery a part of the mating game? 

Doesn't it make you feel good, special and alive, when a guy is interested in you or you suspect that he finds you irresistible and desirable?

You have to admit, it certainly grabs and gets your undivided attention.

But, have you ever wondered if there is a valid reason behind all the uncertainty and trying to figure things out yourself?

It certainly keeps you interested in and gets you thinking about the guy you have a crush on, doesn't it and it may help you to make an effort to look and be your best when you're around him.

It might even push you into making you, help break the ice and move things swiftly along or get you to drop a few subtle hints or give you the confidence to do a bit of mild flirting with him..

But, did you know? 

All the guessing, anticipating, trying to figure him out and thinking about him, can be natures way of helping you fall in love.

Think about it for a minute. The more you think about him and the more he is on your mind. 

Then the more you will become emotionally attracted to him. Sometimes it can feel as if you're already in love with a guy and you already know a guy well, even if you're not dating him. 

This is because you have probably spent so much time thinking about him and imagining being with him that it has caused you to become emotionally connected to him.

You have probably spent so much time thinking about him in your mind, that you created a warm and deep emotional energy and desire for him in your heart.

If you're interested and you like a guy, especially if you think he his also interested in you, but you're not sure for certain that he has the hots for you.

Then, you will spend a lot of time wondering about him and asking yourself questions, like does he like me back or why hasn't he made a move.

Because of all the uncertainty and not knowing you will no doubt, probably spend a lot of your time thinking about him and trying to anticipate and analyze his every move, action, behavior, text messages. 

You have probably already read many articles in the hope that you find that one thing that will end your doubts, uncertainty and curiosity once and for all.

But, what you might not realize is. 

All the time you are thinking and obsessing about him, you are strengthening your feelings and desires for him and forming an internal connection with this guy you like.

Yes, all that wondering and trying to figure out whether he is into you, might appear to be annoying and frustrating for you.

And even though it can drive you mad at times.

It does appear to happen for a reason as it seems to be natures way of bringing you closer to him and making you even more emotionally attached to him.

Some guys like the chase and some girls like the thrill and excitement of being chased and pursued. 

Let your intuition guide you

It's not just the signs a man will reveal to you that he likes you that are the only factor in your decision making, because you should also listen to your own gut feelings and intuition, because like your mother, your intuition always knows what's best for you. 

Never ignore your gut feelings, sometimes coincidence like you keep bumping into the same guy may be more than a coincidence. 

You may also get a gut feeling to indicate whether a guy likes you because your intuition is designed to guide and protect you. 

Your gut intuition can also let you know whether he is the right type for you or the wrong type, so you will know to pursue him or you may need to steer clear of him.

If something does not seem right then tread carefully, do not let your head rule your heart. 

If you do have an overwhelming sense he could be trouble be careful not to allow his charm and confidence to overrule your gut intuition and feelings because your inner intuition is there to help you make the right decision, but it is also designed to protect you.

If your intuition is telling you to go for it, then it is probably worth your while because your true inner intuition is normally right. 

But if you like someone but your intuition is saying he's not interested such as your intuition won't actually be saying go for it.

In fact, you will probably get that niggling and doubting voice in the back of your head trying to tell you. 

"Come on, you know that he is not really interested or steer clear of him because this guy is not for you."


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